| It has been said that we are usually our own | | | | a real comfort and rapport with women, he will |
| worst enemy when it comes to making critical | | | | not be able to date any women, either. |
| changes in ourselves, and that sad fact is the | | | | SPECIFIC QUESTIONS YOU CAN USE TO |
| problem when you first start realizing you have | | | | ANALYZE YOUR ATTRIBUTES |
| been trapped in your own limiting beliefs about | | | | Ask yourself this question next: "What do I |
| yourself as you relate to women and your | | | | perceive to be the #1 quality about myself that I |
| interactions with them in the past. | | | | can enhance?" An answer to that question should |
| But if you start making changes in vital parts of | | | | be very true to your own personality to work |
| your own personality starting right now, you will | | | | best for you. For instance, if you are outgoing |
| be well on your way in improving your inner game | | | | with your guy friends when you go to the movies |
| substantially. When you have a stubborn mindset | | | | or to a football game, you could use that as a |
| about yourself, you will constantly repeat the | | | | good quality about yourself. |
| same patterns about your own innate personality | | | | Then you should be able to align that ability with |
| that you don't think you can possibly change. That | | | | your guy friends to be implemented in your |
| belief is dead wrong. | | | | future interactions with women. You need to |
| The best way for you to change your limiting and | | | | change your self-limiting belief that you can only |
| negative aspects of your personality is by asking | | | | be that outgoing with your guy friends and start |
| yourself some pretty important questions, such | | | | visualizing the way you behave with them and |
| as, "Why am I not dating more women?" The | | | | use that as a way to now interact with women. |
| answer to that should not be "Because I am ugly | | | | You can also ask yourself how your latest |
| to look at." You should start answering those | | | | approach with a woman went when you put |
| questions with more realistic answers. A good one | | | | yourself in her shoes. For example, how did you |
| for you would be, "Because I have not developed | | | | appear to her when you first opened her with |
| strong rapport with women yet." | | | | your comments to her. |
| This is probably a much more realistic reason you | | | | Did you walk to her with strong and confident |
| are not dating more women, since women can | | | | strides, or did you walk to her with your hands in |
| find attractive qualities in even the ugliest guy, IF | | | | your pockets? When you start examining every |
| that guy has strong inner game or has at least a | | | | facet of your approaches with women using |
| stylish wardrobe that women find attractive. But | | | | clinical diagnostic reasoning, you will be able to |
| if that ugly guy cannot figure out how to develop | | | | change your bad habits into great ones. |